I know it's not easy to take care of a child on your own , but if you don't get along with some one should you stay with them. I was married for two years I kicked my husband out after my sons first birthday . He wouldn't keep a job and all we did was fight . We still fight and I hate it . I have a friend who is going to marry this girl just because they have a kid . They don't get along and they have broken up at lest four time in the past year . I just don't see how it will work . Am I wrong for thinking that I want him to be happy , but he is not . He is doing this to stay with the kid . I think that is the wrong reason . I don't think things will end good for him . I don't know what else to tell him I am trying to be a friend and listen to him when he needs to talk , but I don't agree with what he is doing it's not the 1960's where it was a bad thing to have a kid a take care of it a lone . I am so scared that some one is going to get hurt and I think it will be the kid . I can't stand to see kids get hurt . I love children and they should have a family , but not one that is not happy . I also know people have to make their own mistakes and learn from them . I just hate that a child is going to get hurt in all of this . I know my son wants a dad , but I can give him that his dad likes to drink to much and i can't live like that any more and my son shouldn't have to . That is why I left him i couldn't handle the drinking. Well I guess I have said enough see you all in class.